Well I can see how the lust in the relationship could die down after a while. Just like Michael said, you have got to spice up your relationship. However, I don't like how Michael was insinuating that having a relationship should be a job. Personally, I do enough working already, the last thing I want is to come home from work and find that I have another job to do at home. When it comes to getting to know each other in a relationship, I agree that knowing your boyfriend or girlfriend is vital to survive any marriage or even friendship.
I refuse to yell and nag my boy about the same thing, so if they find that he does something I don't like or can't stand, the 1st time he does it I let him know that it is not okay with me. The 2nd time he does it, I let him know that I've already let him know. If he does it again then I him let go. You have to be one giant piece of perfect for me to put up with any BS. The perfect relationship (in my mind) is one that has more fun and little to no drama.
Now, now- don't get me wrong, I'm still a female. I still love getting that special green box with that familiar red ribbon, I still like to hear as many complements as he can think of, and when he takes me out on dates(which is a requirement) he still opens every door. Some say women are high maintenance but I can't speak for everyone, all I know is I sure as hell am.
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